Dark Feminine Energy: Activate Your Feminine Power

Dark feminine energy vs light feminine energy

Being feminine is not just being girly. In fact, feminine energy is very diverse and multi-dimensional. There are two polarities of feminine energy – light feminine energy on the one side, and dark feminine energy on the other side.

It is best to compare feminine energy to the ocean. When you look at it, it is pleasant, soft, and beautiful. But at the same time it is deep, dark and mysterious. One day it can be calm and relaxing, and another day it can turn to an angry storm with huge waves.

The same is with feminine energy – light femininity is soft, nurturing, compassionate, loving and caring energy. Dark femininity is a more sensual, wild, mysterious, and unpredictable.

Is dark feminine energy bad?

It is important to understand that although we call it “dark” feminine energy, it is not bad or negative. If you are always in your light feminine energy, sometimes you can be taken advantage of. Dark feminine energy protects you by reminding you of your own standards and boundaries.

A woman in her dark feminine energy can be very emotionally intense and unapologetic. However, this is a way for her to reclaim her own power by embracing her true emotions and needs. She can easily say no to people and situations, focus on what is best for her personally, and manifest success.

Exploring your dark feminine side will help you grow your self-esteem and assertiveness. A woman in her dark feminine is authentic, confident, she has high standards and boundaries, always goes for what she wants, and puts herself on a pedestal. In essence it is the goddess energy, the femme fatale – mysterious, charismatic and unpredictable, a woman that can never be fully acquired.

Men also like dark feminine energy because it is quite attractive. If you are always the good girl, they will crave for that darker feminine energy that is more exciting, alluring, and keep them on their toes. Dark feminine also makes sure that men will never take you for granted.

Dark feminine fascinates people and draws them to you due to its authenticity and emotional intensity. When you are in your dark feminine energy, you are powerful, unbothered, you don’t really care what others think, and you cannot be controlled by anyone.

So which energy – light or dark – is better, and which one should you choose as your dominant energy? In fact, you’ll feel the most balanced being in your light feminine energy most of the time, with a little bit of dark feminine energy when it is needed. This way you’ll feel grounded, positive and relaxed. You can be soft, joyful and pleasant to be around, and at the same time have this “I’m a goddess” mentality reminding you that you are always worthy of the best.

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