Today I wanted to share 50 questions to ask yourself in order to find your best self and to become the best version of yourself. These questions helped me a lot to discover my own self-worth and to understand what do I really want from my life.
Please take your time to answer each question in depth. I hope that after answering these questions you’ll know exactly what you want, what makes you happy, and what things are blocking you from achieving happiness and success.
I really believe that in order to transform your life, you have to be crystal clear about what your ultimate goals are. As well as to monitor your daily self-talk, your thoughts, and emotions, and detach yourself from anything that prevents you from being happy. It’s best to have a journal and write everything down until you have it all figured out. So let the journey to finding your best self begin!
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50 Questions to Help You Find Your Best Self
- Do I feel happy in my life? If no, what exactly is missing?
- What does make me happy?
- What do I really want in my life?
- What motivates me and energizes me the most?
- What are my talents?
- How would I describe my perfect day?
- What lifestyle do I really want to have?
- Are there people in my environment that put me down and make me feel worse about myself?
- Are there people in my environment that inspire and uplift me and make me feel better about myself?
- Do the people that are closest to me believe in me and support me?
- Where do I want to be in 2 years?
- Do I have any toxic habits?
- What are 5 things that I like about myself?
- What are things I don’t like about myself?
- When do I feel best about myself?
- How many hours do I spend per day watching TV/Netflix/being on social media?
- Do I believe that I can achieve all my dreams?
- Do I love myself? Do I love myself enough to not allow other people to treat me badly?
- What can I do to become the best version of myself?
- What does the best version of myself look like?
- What does success mean to me personally?
- Do my dreams look big enough to me?
- Have I taken full responsibility for my emotions, and my actions?
- What are my fears and doubts about myself and my life? Do I let them stop me?
- What do I tell myself when I see myself in the mirror?
- What are my goals for 2021? What steps do I have to make to achieve them?
- What are my goals for the next month?
- What am I grateful for?
- What is that I don’t like about my life and current situation? What can I do to change that?
- Can I monetize my talents and hobbies?
- If I see a successful person do I feel resentment or do I feel happy about them?
- Do I write down my goals regularly?
- How much time per day do I spend working on my dreams?
- Am I confident when I am among other people? If no, what exactly makes me feel unconfident?
- Am I more of a positive or a negative person? How often do I feel negative emotions (fear, anxiety, jealousy, anger, blame)?
- Do I blame myself for anything? Am I able to forgive myself now?
- What new habit do I want to develop?
- How do I present myself to others? What message about myself do I send to them?
- Do I prioritize myself and my own well-being in my relationships?
- Do I tie my happiness to other people’s actions?
- Do I believe that I’m good enough?
- Do I believe that I’m worthy of being happy and successful?
- Do I believe that I deserve the best?
- What are my first thoughts and feelings when I wake up? Do I feel happy and grateful?
- If I continue doing what I’m doing today, how will my life look in 5 years? In 10 years?
- What are my biggest passions?
- What would make me the happiest person in the world?
- What are the 3 things that I wish to experience in my life?
- What countries do I want to visit?
- Do I believe that I create my life, or that my life happens to me?